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You're in a hobby where the 'typical' member can swipe his plastic and walk away with $400 worth of 'fun'. It might be one sound-equipped locomotive, or a static applicator and several bags of interesting ground foam and flocking, or a six-pack of top-'o-the-line hoppers. Non-brass.
I'm retired and reasonably well fixed....for retired military. A locomotive is a substantial expenditure for me...and for my dependent wife of 46 years. We have to count our pennies because they matter. Each penny. I have just paid our household insurance, and our property taxes are due. Next month, my vehicle insurance. Anybody having fun in a hobby, who's working, not retired, and who has family sanction to do what he would like, and if he's responsible, has a strict limit and budget for what he can spend month-to-month and year-to-year. What he spends is his, for him, and his daughters don't get to enjoy it. Probably not his sons, if he has them.
What I hope to impart is that it's okay to dream, even to dream big. But, until, and unless, you're earning something like USD$4K per month, spending money on a hobby is strictly self-indulgence, and what you spend, the others in your household cannot. If you want spending power, you'll have to create that power, and put it to good use. I believe that is what CTValley's post above this one means; you're trying to join a club that grown men, many of them, simply wouldn't dream of spending on..........because they can't.
I'm retired and reasonably well fixed....for retired military. A locomotive is a substantial expenditure for me...and for my dependent wife of 46 years. We have to count our pennies because they matter. Each penny. I have just paid our household insurance, and our property taxes are due. Next month, my vehicle insurance. Anybody having fun in a hobby, who's working, not retired, and who has family sanction to do what he would like, and if he's responsible, has a strict limit and budget for what he can spend month-to-month and year-to-year. What he spends is his, for him, and his daughters don't get to enjoy it. Probably not his sons, if he has them.
What I hope to impart is that it's okay to dream, even to dream big. But, until, and unless, you're earning something like USD$4K per month, spending money on a hobby is strictly self-indulgence, and what you spend, the others in your household cannot. If you want spending power, you'll have to create that power, and put it to good use. I believe that is what CTValley's post above this one means; you're trying to join a club that grown men, many of them, simply wouldn't dream of spending on..........because they can't.