This may be a questionable idea since I've no experience with this particular damage, but:
Could you open the loco shell and remove the existing 2-pin socket altogether, extend the stripped wires an inch or so if needed for leeway, and solder them directly to the 2 inner now plug-less wires, running them through the hole where the orange plug was ?...
Then just bear in mind you can no longer separate the tender from the engine (Or, at least, not very far).
Guess I could have just said "Try bypassing the orange plug with direct wiring"....